Okay, I'll be honest. I'm more often in a pissed off state than not. But this one is really grinding my gears on this cold, icy February Monday.
In full disclosure, I did not watch the Grammy's last night. I was out watching the Impractical Jokers on tour and laughed my backside off. Upon returning home and checking my Facebook feed I saw that Madonna still had a backside and made sure we saw it. I thought, 'wow, if I were a dedicated blogger I would probably stay home and watch crap like this for material.'
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Did you see the Grammy's? If not, do google Madonna and find out exactly what she wore and how she performed. You might also want to google Annie Lennox and see how she fared last night.
Both women are eligible for AARP memberships. Both women did what they do best. And yet, somehow, people use words like 'tired' or 'cringeworthy' for Madonna while Annie gets the descriptors of 'breathtaking' and 'bringing down the roof'.
Now of course everyone is entitled to their opinion about music. After all, it is art and there is no right or wrong here. But being old enough to remember both artists in their prime I was struck by something.
Annie could be described as cool. She's wearing the same sort of attire she wore 30 years ago. She's covered up and androgynous in style. Her hair is the same. Her overall look is the same as ever. She growled and screamed her performance of a classic.
Madonna probably won't be described as cool. She's wearing the same sort of attire she wore 30 years ago. She's not covered up and overtly sexy in style. Her hair is the same. Her overall look is the same as ever. She growled and screamed her performance of some new material.
Why then the divergent reviews? Is it simply due to taste? Have most of us decided that Annie Lennox is just more talented? I hope that is the case. I hope that is why one "stole the show" and the other was "trying too hard".
But I fear it is something else. As much as people deride our youth obsessed culture, they also seem to think Annie is doing it right and Madonna is doing it wrong. Why? Because Madonna still lets us see her ass?
I'm torn here. Maybe because I'm closer to 50 than 20. But I am starting to see a massive hypocrisy in thinking our culture is obsessed with youth, when we also say once you're a certain age you must behave a certain way. I'm confused as to why two legendary performers are pitted against each other in a 'this is how you age right' way- when both are doing much of the same as they've always done.
If Madonna wore a pantsuit and released an album of standards, would we all applaud her for no longer being obsessed with youth? Would we say you've finally grown up Madonna? I can't think of a more youth obsessed perspective than one that expects women of a certain age to behave a certain way.
It seems that Annie's personal style and music is one we accept at her age. Yet we've all deemed Madonna's personal style and music as the purview of the young, so she needs to give up already. Come on Madonna, you can't be hip when you're old enough to break one. You're not allowed a pass at the Grammy's till you sing a song that's as old as you are and put some fricking clothes on you old bitch. Them's the rules.